XPLAY

You're in bed with your man and you're having hot steamy sex. Then it hits to you. "I wonder what he’s thinking about?” Is this sexy? Does he like this? Is he looking at my stretchmarks? My belly rolls, Oh God, my belly rolls!" Then you're spiral with negative thoughts and now you're too anxious and insecure to even enjoy the moment.

It happens and don't worry you're not alone. Almost every other woman experiences the same thing. At one point in our sex lives, it happens to us. However, the question remains. What was he thinking during sex? What do men think about during sex? We're here to help you figure that out and so, let's get right on it.

You're about to reach the big O during steamy wild sex when… Oh! You wake up. It was all just a dream. You're confused, aroused and somewhat ashamed. What the hell was that? Why were you dreaming about sex?

Sex dreams or dreaming of sex is normal. Yes, it is. (and yes, dreaming about other people instead of your partner is normal too.) You can relax now. It can, however, be awkward or make you feel uncomfortable. Even though we logically understand that they're "not real," sexual dreams can have a profound effect on our psyche, causing us to feel arousal, guilt, or fear. But do remember, it’s just a dream.